Appearing to be Alpha (for men)
How to attract a woman worth attracting:
- Don't show her that you're scared.
- Don't show her that you're poor and without prospects.
- Don't show her that you're mean.
- Don't show her that you're stupid.
- Don't tell her you just want to be mothered.
- Don't tell her you can't deal with modern technology and are "stupid" with mobile phones and the computer.
- Don't show her your bad side.
- Don't show her your mad side.
- Don't show her your sad side.
- Don't show her your neediness.
- Don't talk about your comfort zones.
- Don't ever try to make her feel sorry for you.
- Don't ever admit that you need her more than she needs you, even if you do.
- Don't be fussy.
- Don't whinge about being badly treated by anyone, even if you have been.
- Never admit weakness to her. (Cultivate a female friend for you to unburden your heart to, if you must.)
Remember: just as a man wishes to marry someone like his mother (if he loves and admires his mother), a woman wishes to marry someone like her father (if she loves and admires her father).
We all want to be looked after, but admitting that to your partner will kill everything dead in the water.