The more you lack it, the more you talk about it, like a poor man counting his pennies. Steve Biddulph has written a book about Manhood: http://www.amazon.co.uk/Manhood-Steve-Biddulph/dp/0091894816 which suggests this is an issue with Australian men who are now so pussywhipped that they no longer know how to be men. Real men would be ashamed to read it but his female readers like Julieanne Bekcham seem to like it. American men have big issues too with their masculinity, judging by the books written by Iron John and the reaction to it. No need to buy books written by the pussywhipped for the pussywhipped. Just read, understand and absorb IF by Rudyard Kipling. IF you can keep your head when all about you Are losing theirs and blaming it on you, If you can trust yourself when all men doubt you, But make allowance for their doubting too; If you can wait and not be tired by waiting, Or being lied about, don't deal in lies, Or being hated, don't give way to hating, And y...